“Regardless of WHAT we do in our lives, our WHY—our driving purpose, cause or belief—never changes.” ― Simon Sinek (I’m not sure I agree with this one.)
"People show up for themselves (what they believe). “I have a dream” rather than “I have a plan”. - Simon Sinek
Even the mere thought of taking the time to sit down and figure out how much debt we have can make even the most sturdy among us shudder in complete defeat. Addressing and then making the decision to get out of debt takes conviction, a strong "why", a plan, a budget and LOTS of encouragement. And as a coach, I've seen that one of the best ways for our students to stay motivated is to hear other people's stories, listen to their struggles and live vicariously through their wins.
This is the whole reason I started this "Journey To Debt-Freedom" series. I wanted to curate a reservoir of personal stories that will help you "find your own story" and keep marching forward toward your personal finance goals and ultimately to debt-freedom and beyond.
Along those lines, if you have a "debt-free" or "on-my-way-to debt-free" story, I'd love to share yours with our audience. It's always such a gift to our subscribers and fans to hear your particular story AND will help you, especially if you have a a blog/platform/YouTube channel you want to promote (although that's not at all necessary).
Next up in our "Journey To Debt-Freedom" series, meet Karen!
I'm Karen, I live in South Florida with my husband and 13-year-old son. I'm a CPA by profession and are currently doing contract work from home. In my spare time I run Debt Free Lab, a personal finance blog focused on providing actionable tips to manage money, get out of debt, and more.
I got married for the first time when I was only 18! While married, we racked up over $50K of student loan, credit card, and medical debt. Unfortunately, because we got everything under my credit, when we divorced the judge decided all that debt belonged only to me. I felt that was really unfair and for a while all I did was mope about it and bury my head in the sand so to speak.
It wasn't until I had a medical emergency and I refused to go to the hospital just to avoid more debt that I realized I couldn't ignore the situation any longer. That's when I got serious with my finances. I started budgeting and tightening my spending. It took me about 4 years to pay off all the debt I had, which is an achievement to me considering that I was a single mom living on a low income throughout that entire time.
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Thinking about it twice to address a medical emergency was a really low point for me. I also started thinking about my son and what kind of financial path I wanted to model for him. That's when I started closely following a budget and being really frugal.
I used any free resource I could get my hands on, from local charities and the like. I was also sponsored to take the Financial Peace course, which I felt really empowered me to make lasting changes to my financial life.
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My "why" was definitely my son. I didn't want him to grow up believing debt was just a normal part of life. Throughout my debt repayment journey, I made it a point to teach him basic principles of money management, which I've expanded on as he's grown.
I stayed motivated by surrounding myself with supportive people. I also used a lot of visual aids to remind me of my goal and why I was doing what I was doing. And because I'm an Excel geek, I used lots of spreadsheets to model when I would be debt free and what would it take to get there :)
I definitely had to address some beliefs before I could make any progress paying off my debt. The first thing that I had to address was that it wasn't my fault. Many times we get into debt for reasons out of our control, and I definitely felt this was my case.
It wasn't until I took responsibility for my situation, regardless of how I got there, that I started making real progress. The second thing I had to address was the belief that debt is normal and everybody has debt because it's just impossible not to. As I started meeting other people who were actively pursuing a debt-free life, I began to confront this belief.
I lived in a one-bedroom apartment with my toddler for 3 whole years while paying off debt. Even after I could afford a bigger place, I chose not to so I could benefit from the savings in rent.
I also drove an old beat-up car until it literally died on the road. My boss had to come get me that morning in order to get me into work!
I also used coupons for just about everything. If I couldn't get it at a discount, I didn't buy it. Another sacrifice I made was not going out of town to visit family for an extended period of time. I kept my "vacations" local and far apart.
Being debt free feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. When you're in debt, it tends to consume your thoughts. You're always thinking about the next payment, and the next after that. Being debt free feels liberating. It feels like you can finally focus on what really matters in life.
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I would say:
1. Find a support network, whether locally or online. This is something that really made a difference for me. Paying off debt is tough. It can be really discouraging at times, and it helps to have someone to give you encouragement when you want to give up. Additionally, accountability is key to keep you from slipping up, or to get you back on track.
2. Find what works for you and stick with it. Paying off debt may take some trial and error. In my opinion, there's no one size fits all solution. That's why it's important to not give up when something doesn't work - just try something else until you find your own rhythm. Once you do, stick with it!
Now that you've heard Karen's story, maybe you're ready to take a closer look at a "framework" to start your own "journey to debt freedom". And, if you’ve hung out on this platform for any length of time, you’ll know I’m all about helping you to take action. And here are two very easy next steps to keep you moving in the right direction:
I want for you to capitalize on any and all emotional momentum you’ve gotten from this piece of content by committing two just getting started by completing those two actions I mentioned above. If you’ve done that, congratulations, you’ve started! Now just follow the breadcrumbs and please let me know what’s helpful and what you might need more detail around.
After you complete the "quick start", maybe you'll be ready to take a closer look at a "framework" to continue your own "journey to debt freedom". So, I want to offer you another completely free resource that will help you map out your money with even more confidence.
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So, I’d LOVE to hear from you. The biggest compliment you can give me as your coach is to share your progress and your takeaways in the comments below.
I wish you nothing but great success in your personal finance endeavors and please let me know how I can help you accomplish your goals.
To your freedom,
Your Virtual Money Coach