“There are two primary choices in life; to accept conditions as they exist, or to accept the responsibility for changing them.” – Dennis Waitely
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” – Thomas A. Edison
Paying off debt is not an easy task. It takes conviction, a strong "why", a plan, a budget and LOTS of encouragement. Coaching students through their debt-elimination processes over the past decade, I've seen that one of the best ways for our students to stay motivated is to hear other people's stories, listen to their struggles and live vicariously through their wins.
This is the whole reason I started this "Journey To Debt-Freedom" series. I wanted to curate a reservoir of personal stories that will help you "find your own story" and keep marching forward toward your personal finance goals and ultimately to debt-freedom and beyond.
Along those lines, if you have a "debt-free" or "on-my-way-to debt-free" story, I'd love to share yours with our audience. It's always such a gift to our subscribers and fans to hear your particular story AND will help you, especially if you have a a blog/platform/YouTube channel you want to promote (although that's not at all necessary).
Next up in our "Journey To Debt-Freedom" series, meet Gary Smith! Gary's story is a bit of an anomaly for me... Why? Because he never actually had any consumer debt to get out of. Rather, he maintained a particular mindset and attitude toward money throughout his entire adult life that hopefully where most of us land once we've gotten to the other side of debt.
Gary, if you would, briefly introduce yourself; where you live and a little about what you do.
My name is Gary Smith. I live in Southington, Connecticut with Martha, my wife of 45 years. I have three grown daughters and four beautiful granddaughters, ages 2 weeks to 3 years. I've been in the business world for 45 years and have been working as a business consultant, life and financial coach for the past 22 years.
I love traveling and have a huge bucket list of places yet to visit. I'm also an avid amateur radio operator and shortwave radio listener with an impressive collection of both vintage and new radios. I also enjoy writing and have published 4 books in the business and personal development arena.
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Give me a little bit of background about your financial mindset and situation and how that’s developed over the years. Most of our students aspire to be where you are and I think it’s important to outline how you got there.
I think I'm an anomaly in this category. My wife and I have never carried any debt except the mortgage on our home, and we paid that off 13 years ago. We live a comfortable, but not extravagant lifestyle. We've always been savers and investors -- disciplined with our money. We put all three of our girls through college and grad school, and we're now preparing to do the same for our granddaughters.
Tell me about "the lightbulb moment" you observed in your family/financial background where you decided, "I think this can be done differently" and what actions did you take or resources did you use to make sure you were financially sound?
I grew up in a family of spenders. My mom and dad were good people and they made decent money, but they pretty much lived paycheck-to-paycheck. That was the lifestyle I was used to until I met the man who would eventually be my father-in-law. Even though he had faced many adversities in his life, he came out on top and built a multi-million dollar financial base. He was willing to teach and I listened and have been able to do the same for my family.
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What was your "why"? What kept you going when you wanted to quit? How did you stay motivated?
I think there are three why's that continue to drive me to this day. 1. I believe that God wants us to be good stewards of the resources (the money) he entrusts to our care.
Something I had to really address when going through my debt-elimination journey was my belief system around money. Describe your "belief system" about money and (if/how) has it changed as you’ve progressed through life? Maybe even talk about how you were brought up to think about money and how that changed as you progressed through the process.
Growing up, I never thought much about money. It was just something to be spend for my enjoyment. That all changed when I wanted to go to college and realized that I was on my own to pay for it, because my parents couldn't afford to help me very much. I think that's when I began to realize that money was a tool and, if I could learn to use it effectively, it would benefit both me and others. Then, I met my father-in-law. He taught me the finer points of the money mindset. Not rocket science, mind you, but basic, easy to use philosophies that will guarantee anyone financial success.
What have been the biggest/toughest sacrifices you've made in your personal finance/debt-elimination process?
For me, I think it was learning the process of delayed gratification. As one of my mentors, Dave Ramsey, says: If you are willing to live today like others are unwilling to live, tomorrow you will be able to live like others are unable to live.
So, you’re in the enviable situation of being debt free, describe how it feels or how it feels and why you’d say it’s a worthwhile pursuit.
I've been completely debt free since 2008. The only debt my wife and I ever had was the mortgage on our home, and we erased that in 2008 as part of our Christmas present to each other. We've never had credit card debt and have always paid cash for our cars. We've also built enough wealth, that we have no financial worries for the future. It feels wonderful to wake up every morning knowing that there are no financial obligations hanging over my head. It frees my mind to focus on the really important things in life.
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What are 2 (or 3) pieces of advice you would give to someone who's ready to get serious about tackling their finances?
One of my critical missions in life is helping people achieve financial freedom. Seeing people become debt free is one of the greatest joys in the world!
Thanks so much for coming and sharing with our audience today, tell us where people can find you.
Now that you've heard Gary's story, maybe you're ready to take a closer look at a "framework" to start your own "journey to debt freedom". And, if you’ve hung out on this platform for any length of time, you’ll know I’m all about helping you to take action. And here are two very easy next steps to keep you moving in the right direction:
I want for you to capitalize on any and all emotional momentum you’ve gotten from this piece of content by committing two just getting started by completing those two actions I mentioned above. If you’ve done that, congratulations, you’ve started! Now just follow the breadcrumbs and please let me know what’s helpful and what you might need more detail around.
After you complete the "quick start", maybe you'll be ready to take a closer look at a "framework" to continue your own "journey to debt freedom". So, I want to offer you another completely free resource that will help you map out your money with even more confidence.
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So, I’d LOVE to hear from you. The biggest compliment you can give me as your coach is to share your progress and your takeaways in the comments below.
I wish you nothing but great success in your personal finance endeavors and please let me know how I can help you accomplish your goals.
To your freedom,
Your Virtual Money Coach